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intimacy· Voted Best Lube by Cosmopolitan

Self Disclosure Intimacy Serum

Intimacy means: into me, you see. Self Disclosure is named after the practice that makes intimacy possible — disclosing yourself, to yourself, first. Remember how soft you are.

  • Gynecologist-tested and safe for your most sensitive places
  • Reduces friction, supports ease and sensation
  • Formulated for calm — stress melts on contact
  • Deeply hydrating, never greasy
  • 95.5% organic. Scented only with a 100%-natural grapefruit extract — never chemical fragrance
On the rhythm
$84/ season · 3 bottles
Just once
$34
Join the rhythm

3 bottles a season — $84. Pause or leave anytime.

$34 · just this one

Somatic sensory ritual

Protection can feel like disconnection — even numbness.

Let softness lower your guard so feeling good can feel safe again.

Why this works: When the Mind Withholds, the Skin Hungers →

Built on real mechanisms

And the people who study them.

No invented numbers — we hold our clinical stats until they’re independently signed off. What we’ll show you: the peer-reviewed mechanisms, and the board that built this before it had a bottle.

  • Stephanie Lee

    Founder

  • Dr. Byron Young

    Chief Medical Advisor

  • Dr. Jeshana Avent-Johnson

    Chief Therapy Advisor

  • Robyn Melissa-Watkins

    Beauty + Wellness Advisor

  • Dr. Cezary Skobowiat

    Psychodermatology Science Advisor

  • Natalie Lupiani

    Research + Advocacy Advisor

33 reviews · 4.7★ — the most-loved product in the line.

$34or join the rhythm →Make space for the minute.

How to use.

  1. Dispense to tense areas or erogenous zones. Massage neck, breasts, inner thighs.

  2. Apply liberally externally for self-pleasure or pre/post intercourse.

  3. Breathe deeply into your pelvic floor. Let breath expand and release.

The ingredients.

  • Copaiba Balsam

    Soothes irritation; helps your body exhale.

  • Schisandra Fruit

    Adaptogen that helps the body resist stress, stimulate pleasure, and promote physical exploration.

  • Safflower Oil

    Deep hydration without heaviness.

  • Arnica Montana Flower

    Calms sensitivity; supports recovery after touch.

  • Vitamin E

    Strengthens your barrier and seals in moisture.

  • Grapefruit Peel Oil

    Energizes skin and awakens senses.

What people say.

4.7/ 5

33 verified reviews

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    I came in two minutes. And my cuticles are amazing.

    This serum really does warm to the touch, and my privates felt so relaxed and it felt so good for once to touch myself, I came in two minutes from masturbating. And as someone who has a hard time cumming (I'm always in my head) and hates sticky lubes, this oil ACTUALLY. WORKS. The dropper is perfect because one pump/button push is all you need to moisturize down there, just apply directly. You don't even have to clean up or wipe anything off if you don't want to, it's fast absorbing and just comfortable down there. I use it for penetration with my boyfriend too, I love it. AND I saw reviews where it's a multi-purpose oil you can use on your skin and cuticles, and my cuticles are so moisturized without being too oily, so good. I keep this oil on my desk, bedroom nightstand, I've even carried it in my purse. The bottle design is so discreet, most people don't know it's also an intimacy oil.

    — Ginally A.

  • Verified

    Amazing for eczema!

    I bought this product because of the rave reviews by other eczema sufferers. I thought nothing could help my cracked, raw, bleeding knuckles, since my prescription ointment wasn’t doing much, but it was worth a try. My skin is transformed! I haven’t used this product anywhere but my hands.

    — Jessica D.

  • Verified

    It Did The Job Nothing Else Could!

    I’ve had the Intimacy Serum for a while and I’ve used it from time to time on different parts of my body, but recently I started suffering from an eczema flare up on the backs of my hands. I haven’t ever had this problem before so I wasn’t sure what to do; I tried different lotions and they made my hands BURN! Out of curiosity, I tried the serum out, and within 2 days BOOM - my hands are clear and the eczema is at bay. Truly a game changer!

    — Taylor E.

  • Verified

    Calming

    While I don’t really use this oil for its intended use, I’ve really enjoyed using it. If anything, I’d wish it would come in a larger bottle. I often use it to moisturize my body after getting out of the shower. The scent is very pleasant, yet subtle so it’s not over-bearing. It’s perfect to use at the end of the day when winding down. Definitely would continue using this.

    — Stephanie F.

  • Verified

    Rewarding experience

    A bit of a TMI, but I primarily used it for Lube because I thought that was it's targeted function haha. And well, it did make me feel very good I can say that. Using at as a regular body oil once I realized thats what it was actually for was also a very rewarding experience. I admired the way it made my legs shine and stand out.

    — Kanyia C.

  • Verified

    Great scent!

    I enjoyed the scent and it goes on great!

    — Jishyra S.

Frequently asked.

Why is it called Self Disclosure?
Sexual shame exists; feeling unsafe in your own body doesn't feel good. Getting intimate with yourself — from feelings to physical touch — creates space for exploration.
Is Self Disclosure a lubricant?
Not FDA-approved as a medical-grade lubricant — and that's the point. It's gyno-tested skincare for your most sensitive places: soothes pre/post-sex discomfort, supports sensation, and helps you have a relationship with your body from a lens of care.
What's an adaptogen?
Components of herbal medicines used for centuries to improve the body's resilience to physical and emotional stress.
Use with condoms or latex toys?
Not recommended with latex condoms or silicone toys.
Full list of ingredients

Carthamus Tinctorius (Safflower) Seed Oil, Copaifera Officinalis (Balsam Copaiba) Resin, Schisandra Chinensis Fruit Extract, Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Arnica Montana Flower Extract, Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Oil, Citrus Grandis (Grapefruit) Peel Oil, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride.

Sustainability features

Eight intentionally sourced ingredients, 95.5% certified organic/natural. European-sourced sustainable glass. Solar-powered US manufacturing.

What the press has said.

  • “Merging behavioral science with skincare to foster self-awareness and emotional wellbeing.”
    — Forbes
  • “selfmade isn't just about skincare — it's about care that goes beyond the surface.”
    — Cosmopolitan
  • “selfmade is redefining beauty as a feeling and relationship to self.”
    — Bustle
  • “Your skin influences how you feel — and how you show up in the world.”
    — Well+Good